Six ways to stop Overthinking.
Overthinking is the biggest cause of unhappiness. ~ Buddha Is overthinking controlling your life?
She told me, “You will never be happy in your life, because you think too much.” She was my Thai girlfriend. Was is the operative word here, as she is no longer my girlfriend, but she still wants to be my good friend.
We can still be friends is the kiss of death in any relationship. My overthinking was the cause of the end of our relationship according to her.
Let’s be honest, a broken heart is the worst pain that anybody can endure. We all know an abscess tooth ranks a close second, but a broken heart inflicts pain upon us for as long as we allow the pain to consume us.
Overthinking, or over analyzing is human nature. We all think, don’t we? It is what makes us human.
Right now there is a voice inside of your head that never stays quiet. If you are thinking now, what voice, I don’t hear any voice. That is the voice that I am talking about.
It is the voice of you overthinking. If you do not learn to be mindful of this voice inside of your head, it will bring you many problems in your life.
This voice is often referred to as the Monkey Mind in Buddhist teachings. The monkey mind jumps around from thought to thought often focused on negative memories from the past, and fears of negative outcomes in the future.
Our monkey mind is always churning out thoughts as it randomly analyzes the world around us. It is human nature to believe the worst in many of our thoughts and interactions with the circumstances and events that are going on in our lives.
When we overthink we worry about things that may never happen. This causes us stress and anxiety. Our stress and anxiety will be felt in the pit of our stomach, and lead us to many health problems.
Human beings are inquisitive by nature. Most of the time this is a good thing, but at other times it will fill our heads with unnecessary negative thoughts.
These negative thoughts can cause us heartbreak in our relationships with others, and cause us to inflict pain upon ourselves in our everyday lives as well.
Do you want peace and happiness within you, or do you want to be a victim of an overthinking mind?
How to stop Overthinking, and embrace the state of nirvana:
Most of us, except for enlightened monks, or a highly enlightened Anagami, worry about things that may never happen in the future. We also being victims of our monkey minds, relive our past memories, often in a negative way.
When we blend the two together we create the perfect storm to overthink ourselves into a pool of worry, stress, and anxiety. We use our past experiences in order to judge the outcome of present, and future events.
Yes, we should all learn from our Past Mistakes, but we must not think, or believe that the outcome of current or future events will follow the same path as they have before.
We must not allow the outcomes of our past to set a precedent for the rest of our future decisions. We must let go of our past, and be mindful of the present moment.
Being mindful of the present means focusing your attention solely on what you are doing right now. When you wake up in the morning and jump in the shower to get your blood pumping, what are you thinking about?
Are you thinking about sorrow, and depression from your past experiences? Are you thinking about worries about the future?
If you are mindful of the present than you are thinking about the temperature of the water. Is it hot or cold? You can smell the shampoo and soap that you are using to clean and refresh your body.
You can hear the water coming out of the showerhead, and you can hear the remanences of the water, soap, and shampoo being sucked down the drain, as you can visually see the whirlpool spinning around and gathering strength as it disappears down the drain.
Be present in all of your daily activities, and overthinking cannot overcome you. Do not let memories of the past guide your thinking, it is best to forgive, and forget:
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